Behaviour Therapy for Kids: When Should Parents Consider It?
- Dr Devi Raj

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Behaviour Therapy for Kids: When Should Parents Consider It?
By Pranaah Holistic Health Care
Parenting is often a guessing game. When your toddler throws a tantrum because their toast is cut into squares instead of triangles, you might laugh it off as the "terrible twos." But when outbursts become frequent, aggressive, or impact your child's daily life, the laughter often turns to worry.
A common question we hear from parents in Kollam is: “Is this just a phase, or does my child need professional help?”
Understanding when to seek Behaviour Therapy can change the trajectory of your child’s development. At Pranaah CDC, we believe in empowering parents with the right answers.

Understanding the "Why" Behind the Behaviour
First, it is important to know that behavior is communication. When a child acts out, withdraws, or refuses to follow instructions, they are often trying to communicate a need or a struggle they cannot verbally express.
Behaviour Therapy is not about "fixing" a "bad" child. It is a structured, compassionate approach to help children unlearn negative behaviors and replace them with positive, functional skills.
5 Signs You Should Consider Behaviour Therapy
While every child develops at their own pace, there are specific red flags that indicate professional support might be needed. You should consider booking a consultation if you notice:
Safety Concerns: Your child engages in self-harm (head banging, scratching) or is physically aggressive toward others (hitting, biting) past the age where it is developmentally common.
Disruption of Daily Life: Tantrums or meltdowns last longer than 10-20 minutes and happen multiple times a day, making it difficult to go to school, visit family, or go to public places.
Regression: Your child seems to be losing skills they previously had (such as toilet training or language).
Social Struggles: Significant difficulty making friends, sharing, or understanding social cues compared to peers.
School Issues: Consistent reports from teachers regarding inability to sit still, follow instructions, or impulse control issues.
Note: Early intervention is the gold standard. Waiting for a child to "grow out of it" can sometimes allow negative behaviors to become deeply partial habits.
The Pranaah Advantage: Pioneer Care in Kollam
When it comes to your child's mental health, experience matters.
Pranaah CDC holds the distinct honor of being the First Established Counselling Centre in Kollam City, serving our community since 2013. For over a decade, we have been the trusted partner for parents navigating child development challenges.
Leadership You Can Trust
Our department is guided by the expert leadership of Dr. Devi Raj. As a renowned Psychologist and Licensed Early Interventionist, Dr. Devi Raj brings a wealth of clinical experience to every case. Her philosophy is simple: treat the child, support the family.
Under her guidance, Pranaah has built a robust multidisciplinary team. We don't just look at one aspect of your child. Our team includes:
Psychologists (for assessment and therapy)
Behaviour Therapists (for skill building)
Counselors (for family support)
Speech & Occupational Therapists (for holistic development)
This integrated approach ensures that if your child’s behavioral issues are linked to speech delays or sensory processing issues, we catch it and treat it all under one roof.
How Does Behaviour Therapy Work?
At Pranaah, we use evidence-based techniques tailored to your child's age.
For Younger Kids: It looks like play! We use games to teach impulse control, turn-taking, and emotional regulation.
For Older Kids: We use talk therapy and structured activities to help them understand consequences and manage their emotions.
For Parents: We train you. We give you the tools to manage behaviors at home so the progress doesn't stop when you leave our clinic.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
1. What is the best age to start behaviour therapy?
There is no "wrong" age, but earlier is better. If you suspect developmental delays or behavioral issues, starting as early as age 2 or 3 (Early Intervention) yields the best long-term results. However, therapy is effective for school-aged children and adolescents as well.
2. Do I need a referral to visit Pranaah CDC?
No, you do not need a doctor's referral to book an appointment with us. You can contact Pranaah CDC directly to schedule an assessment with Dr. Devi Raj or our multidisciplinary team.
3. Is behaviour therapy only for children with Autism or ADHD?
No. While it is a primary treatment for Autism and ADHD, behaviour therapy is highly effective for children with anxiety, depression, oppositional defiant disorder (ODD), or children simply going through significant life changes (divorce, relocation) who are acting out.
4. How long does therapy take to show results?
Behaviour modification is a process, not a pill. Some families see changes in a few weeks, while others require support for several months. Consistency is key. Our team at Pranaah monitors progress regularly to ensure the plan is working.
Ready to support your child?
Don't navigate this journey alone. Trust the experienced hands at Pranaah CDC, Kollam’s first established counselling centre.
Contact us today to schedule a consultation.
Website: www.pranaah.org
Location: Pranaah Holistic Health Care, Thevally, Kollam.



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